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By: Anonymous
Date: 2023-08-20T00:33:25.752403Z
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Date: 2023-08-20T00:33:25.752403Z
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Date: 2023-08-20T05:18:27.693508Z
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Date: 2023-08-18T19:56:45.087879Z
Thats a big question to answer bc our view for ourselves doesn't match with others. Either is better or worse. I believe that if you know yourself then u can do or don't whats right or wrong. I was always proud of myself even for my mistakes or decisions that either was for my future or my personal matters. I am an introvert Sagittarius even at 37 i have those moments but I'm there whenever u need me, I'm your crying shoulder I'm ready to kill fory family and my loved ones. I will hear you i will tell you my opinion but the choise is yours. So I'm proud of me and myself bc i haven't let anything to change me. I'll always be Evi !!!! P.s DON'T ALLOW ANYONE AND ANYTHING TO CHANGE U
Date: 2023-08-20T04:10:05.371971Z
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Date: 2023-08-21T02:53:05.978963Z
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Date: 2023-08-19T04:35:33.801881Z
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Date: 2023-08-19T01:59:25.234510Z
When I achieve my goals that I have set out for myself and by others like my mentor who knows how to push me and allows me to make mistakes but is there when I need his advice. Me knowing that people who have said or even thought that I wasnt worth the time or energy to believe in are always proven wrong when I achieve my goals and they are still where they are at blamming everyone but themselves where they are. I have been around people who blame their life on the government not protecting them and giving others handouts but them when it's really about their choices in life of what they achive and don't achive. Everytime I achieve something I brag about it to myself everyday that "Hey I achieve that goal which I thought was so hard but really it was super easy so what's my next goal going to be and is it going to teach me a new skill or something new about myself that I just happen to wake up inside of me." That is how great people over come their problems and allow to improve themselves everyday. I also learn from not achieving goals that I need to find a different route to it because route a didn't work out for me but maybe route b will. Even if I fail from achieving the goal I know I try my hardest and I will be better next time I set that same goal. I also enjoy seeing the looks of my haters when they know that I'm achieving my goals and they arent because of their choices. It's all about believing in yourself and not listening to what others say about you that will make you succeed or fail. If you get the haters in your head with their negativity then they win but if you have them in your head as positive thoughts like "You wont make a million dollars in a year" instead you say "I wont make a million dollars in a year instead I will make a million dollars in 6 months." Then you have won the battle no matter what the out come is. Stay positive and use negative as the fuel for you to make your goals and so how much you have grown as a person.
Date: 2019-07-28T15:17:34.050058Z
Heartbreak is something else, it makes you lose yourself, in all the pity and all the pain. Now you won't smell roses and you can't stand the rain. The rain you used to love, when the both of you would hug, standing in it, for an hour or just for a minute. Now you don't believe in the stars no more, but you do believe in scars for sure. Every part of you is bruised, and you feel like you were used, not just your heart or your soul but everything that made you whole. And you wish that they had warned you, coz it feels like someone conned you, out of everything you had inside. From your love down to your pride. This heartbreak took away the song that you would sing, it took the sun and the moon and the light that they would bring. Love was your thing, it was simply but yet magic. Heartbreak took that all away and now it's just tragic to see something so wonderful just fade away. So you're thinking and you're dreaming will there be another day? When your heart will be healed and you can feel it beat again.
Date: 2020-05-15T17:48:32.886802Z
I will never forget the day that someone showed me kindness when I needed it most. I have anxiety, but I used to have it even worse a few years ago. There was one day when I felt an anxiety attack coming on in high school. I asked to be dismissed and ran out of the classroom to the bathroom. I hated asking for help, so I never went to the guidance counselor. Instead, I would sit in an empty stall and wait out my panic. It was really hard for me to reach out because of the stigma, fearing no one would take me seriously. When I left the bathroom, I bumped into this girl. I wasn’t watching where I was going, so I apologised. She smiled widely at me, insisting it was her fault and continued to ask who I was and where I was going. I was shocked at her sudden interest, wondering why she wanted to know so much. It definetly looked like I was crying, but she never asked why. We simply walked back to my classroom together and before she left, she said “I hope your troubles pass.” I will never forget those words of comfort. It pushed me to reach out to my parents and really get help to break the chains of anxiety holding me back. Sometimes, emotional support can be wise words from a stranger. It was just what I needed. If you needed to hear it today, I hope your troubles pass you by. I hope that sunshine rains over you. Most of all, I hope you have people in your life to support you emotionally, we all need a little help sometimes.
Date: 2019-09-26T01:14:48.949551Z
I once paid $65 to attend a seminar held by an entertainment “Industry professional” on how to ‘make it in Hollywood’. There’s an entire cottage industry of people who know slightly more selling tid-bits of knowledge to those who know slightly less. But I didn’t care about that at the time. There I sat, pen and notepad in hand, eager. Ready. At the start all in attendance realized today would be different. The Industry Professional, in a gesture that was certainly intended to be more dramatic than it’s result, tore up her lesson plan and threw it into the air. It was only a few pieces of paper so the effect lasted maybe 2 seconds. “This lesson plan is garbage!” she yelled. “Last night, I learned the only key to success you’ll ever need in the entertainment industry. Last night changed my life”. Ok, fool me once, shame on me. But fool me twice? I’d already paid for this. You don’t sell someone on the product after they bought it. This could only mean one thing- I was about to learn the only thing I’d ever need to learn. And it only cost me half a Saturday and $65. Sweet. Honestly, I feel like this story should be behind some sort of paywall. I should charge everyone who reads this $65. But, alas, I’m magnanimous. So here you go. Are you guys ready? After she LITERALLY tore up her lesson plan and threw it into the air, she looked at us with a fire in her eyes and said: “No matter what, no matter how you feel, no matter what time it is, always, always, always answer your phone. No matter what” As you can imagine, this was underwhelming. Maybe because I came from a household of strict devotees to the “If it’s important they’ll leave a message” school of phone etiquette. Or maybe because everyone in that class had a cell phone in their pocket that LITERALLY TELLS THEM WHO IS CALLING. Regardless, this Industry Professional had received a call from an unknown number at 7:30pm the prior evening. She didn’t feel like answering it. She did anyway, because she “had a hunch”. To her surprise, it was a colleague from years gone by who was in a bit of a bind. This colleague’s guest to a fancy party had just dropped out last minute and now he needed to bring someone else. Enter our Industry Professional. What followed was a pretty awkward two hours which involved being regaled with a probably quite hung over, or even still drunk, awkwardly extemporaneous account of a fairly unremarkable Hollywood party. The famous people she met, the hors d'ouevres that were passed, and how handsome Brad Pitt is in real life. Here was an objectively successful woman in her mid 50s completely NERDING out over the time she got to hang out with people who are essentially her industry colleagues. This was what success meant to her. I admit, there’s something sad about this. It makes her feel small, petty, impulsive, vapid even. But honestly, I think that’s wrong. This was a woman who got into this business BECAUSE of her fandom, not in spite of it. If her entire life meant success is sharing a Chicken Skewer with Dermot Mulroney, then who am I to say she’s wrong? Years of “growth” can convince ourselves into letting cynicism take over. We look back and judge our youthful naivety as weakness, as hero worship, or as just plain embarrassingly silly. Everyone knows you should “never meet your heroes” But not her. She let her fandom be a source of constant inspiration and validation. To me, there’s something beautiful in that. To me, that’s $65 well spent.